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yay! [Aug. 27th, 2008|06:49 pm]

catbirdgirl
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[Current Location |about to go to ridgeville park farmers market]
[mood | excited]

It appears, nonwithstanding some paperwork, that we should be moving to Delaware! Yay! Eek! Want to come help pack?
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RIP Del Martin [Aug. 27th, 2008|01:40 pm]

yezida
Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin fell in love at a time when lesbians risked being arrested, fired from their jobs and sent to electroshock treatment. - The Chicago Tribune

Del Martin died this morning.

She and her wife, Phyllis Lyon, were pioneers, inspirations, activists, feminists, and beloved of not only the city of San Francisco, but people around the country. They moved in together in 1953, founded the Daughters of Bilitis in 1955 and later worked on many other social justice projects including the formation of the Council on Religion and the Homosexual in 1964. Del, an advocate of battered women, wrote one of the earliest books on domestic violence. Del and Phyllis and others lobbied the American Psychiatric Association to protest the classification of homosexuality as mental illness. In 1974, the DSM no longer listed homosexuality as a mental disorder.

For these actions on behalf of humanity, I thank you, Del. May you be blessed on your journey. And Phyllis, may you remain surrounded by love.

Upon her death, Phyllis said, “Ever since I met Del 55 years ago, I could never imagine a day would come when she wouldn’t be by my side. I am so lucky to have known her, loved her, and been her partner in all things. I also never imagined there would be a day that we would actually be able to get married. I am devastated, but I take some solace in knowing we were able to enjoy the ultimate rite of love and commitment before she passed.”



[thanks to claudimp for the head's up]
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31 things [Aug. 27th, 2008|02:16 pm]

catbirdgirl
31 things just went up on evanston freecycle.
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[Aug. 27th, 2008|02:37 pm]

inkyblue2
the seasons are beginning to change. the sky is beautiful today: gray and silent, like the parts of winter that i love so much. it's hard to describe the feeling of peace that comes over me on days like this. it will be another two months or more until the first snow, but i am ready for it today.
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[100 words / 100 days] 27/100 - centaurs [Aug. 27th, 2008|01:32 pm]

kiramor
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Lilandra stood near the force-fence and watched the centaurs. The little ones had four balls flying, catching and throwing them in some pattern she couldn't discern. When studying for her Herdmastery exam she'd learned all 350 words of the centaur's spoken language, but she couldn't remember if the game had a name. Probably not; centaurs seemed unlikely to waste a word on something so trivial.

She heard the clank of the robo-farrier from the barn, and then the farrier's operator cursing. She tensed her shoulders. If Smith had mis-programmed that thing again she'd throw him off her property.
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[100 words / 100 days] 26/100 - milk [Aug. 27th, 2008|10:49 am]

kiramor
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I think I just had the best milk of my life. It was practically straight from the cow, milked yesterday, refrigerated, and in my glass this morning. It was whole milk and tasted like ice cream in a glass. But not too sweet, just deliciously creamy. I don't generally like milk and I loved this. My boss' sister runs Dyer Dairy, and all of us at work have been wanting to try the milk. Boss brought some in, and I bet it doesn't last the day. The dairy is located in Georgetown. You should stop by if you're close enough to make it worth the gas money.
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i dowanna go to bed! [Aug. 26th, 2008|11:19 pm]

catbirdgirl
[mood | stressed]

I am SO restless tonight!
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Right Speech [Aug. 26th, 2008|07:28 pm]

yezida
I pulled the ansuz rune after this morning's meditations. When that rune turns up, I am being called upon to listen - to the wind, to humans, to patterns, to my thoughts, my words and my Gods. Sometimes it also means I am called upon to speak.

There is a lot of energy flowing lately, both on a global scale, and locally. Some friends are in desperate need. Others fight, in our very communities. They fight depression, or financial hardship, or each other. Still others grapple with themselves as they prepare to build new systems of culture and spirit. Self-righteousness is seen, as are hope, fear, joy, and stalwart presence.

These various situations, along with today's rune, have me thinking about the concept of right speech. This is an important component of the Eightfold Path of Buddhism. Pagans don't talk about it directly, but we do speak of the power of words. We talk about intention. We have rites of cleansing. Yet so often, when push comes to shove, we forget all of these and react instead of acting. We become puppets of our complexes instead of masters of our lives.

Right speech is clean, coming from the center. It sheds light or opens up the darkness to greater understanding. It's intention is connection, and preparing the way. This takes practice, stillness and presence.

Right speech is not accusation for accusation’s sake. Right speech is clear. Shining. Right speech holds the power of silence within it. Right speech does not inflate itself, nor does it diminish. Right speech comes like a thunderbolt or the quiet opening of a flower. It carries listening. Compassion. Strength. Bound up in our complexes, right speech cannot make its way, and twists back in upon us. How clean are we, really? How clear? What is our agenda? Is it actually communication?

The magician knows the power of her words and does not waste her breath. She listens and then speaks. Self-righteousness is not the hallmark of the adept. Wasting breath wastes life and forges disconnection. The powerful one, the centered one, wastes nothing. He prepares himself and speaks or acts incisively, with grace.

Meditating on ansuz I want to breathe in and connect with what is deep and clear. I wish to listen.

Ahh. My heart beats. The sun is waning in the sky. My stomach is telling me it wants food fairly soon. My mind rests on those in pain this week, so I send out prayers and energy. I send out prayers for Patrick McCollum, and C and his friend and for all in need around the world. I send prayers for all those entangled in battle.

May strength enter every time we breathe, knowing that breath is shared with all things living. May we speak rightly, with intention, co-creators with the powers of air.
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eep [Aug. 26th, 2008|06:38 am]

catbirdgirl
[mood | anxious]

going to try to keep good journal on this huge life change so I can look back at it later.

today, Nathan leaves. interview on wednesday.

I am feeling extremely hungry and too anxious to eat.

That's quite unusual for me.

I am fussing about trying to help him find and remember everything. fuss fuss fuss bother bother bother.

remembering the heinlein (?) quote "when in worry and in doubt run in circles scream and shout!"

I do change ok, but I've never had to make a fast change like this.
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Don't Eat The Cheese [Aug. 25th, 2008|08:53 pm]

royalbananafish
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Sunday [info]don_negro and I attended the Family Winemakers of California 18th Annual Tasting. It was a lovely day to be out at the Festival Pavilion in Fort Mason Center. Next year I will know to (1) wear less clothing, as it was very hot inside the pavilion, (2) put my hair up, and (3) not eat the cheese.

There were so many winemakers there that even if we had just started with a single taste down a single row, we'd have been on the floor before we hit the aisle. The entire pavilion was filled, and there must have been over 300 wineries represented. So we picked a few arbitrary tastes as we walked down the end of the alphabet, and then I picked a strategy: go taste grapes I don't know. We liked everything we tasted, more or less. Here's what we tried:

Banyan Wines & The Hobo Wine Company
The winemaker, Kenny Likitprakong, told me he picked the name Banyan because he originally created his wines to be paired with southeast Asian cuisine. (A banyan tree, for those who don't know, is a thing of wonder. It grows up and then down and re-roots the branches, and can live a very long time.) The Riesling is the only Riesling I have ever liked; it is an old vine, dry creek wine.

Barreto Cellars
I'm a sucker for Spanish wine, and luckily there are a lot of wineries focused on Spanish grapes here. [info]don_negro's note was "Awesome." The Verdelho is a grape I didn't know, a nice big white with a lovely large fruit feel and a complex finish without a "white wine aftertaste." The dessert wine was a port, sweet and amazing ([info]maxomai you need this for Mass). Also tried the Touriga, a red, and loved that too.

Bokish Vineyards
Albariño was the grape I decided to chase first, since I had never heard of it before. It is a lovely white wine, and I am slowly learning that I don't hate white wine, I just hate buttery california chardonnays. Anyway, they have two, and the one from Clemens Hill was the better of the two, though they were both yummy. The Garnacha, another Spanish grape, is bright and will age well. So will the Tempranillo. The Graciano is 5% tempranillo, and is for drinking now, big and smooth flavor.

Dancing Coyote Wines
I put many stars by this one, it was one of the last we tasted. We met with Alex McCormack, who is a sales rep, and whose family owns the winery. He was such a nice guy. They have an Albariño, that was very fine, probably the best I'd tasted all day. Also a Verdelho that I like, and my new favorite Chenin Blanc. We also tasted the Petite Sirah, which I put three stars next to (that's the most room I had for stars).

Fort Ross Vineyards & Winery
This is the first place we stopped. (The entries are alphabetical here only because the tasting book is.) This is the CA winery nearest to the ocean, owned by some South Africans. The '04 Chardonnay was yummy (there are Chardonnays I like? This is shocking to me!), a Rosé that is made with Pinot Noir grapes, and a Pinotage. I'd never heard of Pinotage, but I loved it.

Four Vines Winery
This winery has something called the "freak show" series that Christian Tietje (the winemaker) came up with. Apparently he is into design. We tasted Anarchy (black bottle, yellow anarchy symbol) and "temperance." Must taste the others some time. I bet we go visit the winery sometime.

Grasso Vineyard
Frankly we stopped here because they had a bottle of wine boxed in a mini violin case (that was a wine box) and it was adorable. They make a very nice Cabernet Sauvignon.

Hendry
We stopped here in search of Albariño, but they didn't have it with them--fair enough I guess, as they only made about 300 cases of it this year. I asked about the grape and learned a fair bit about it, but didn't get to taste it here. Instead we tried the Pinot Grigio, next to which I wrote "find and buy."

Mahoney Vineyard
A nice Italian girl married a nice Irish man, and that's why Mahoney vineyards has the marvelous italian grape Vermentino. They also had a solid Albariño. Very chatty lady here was happy to talk to us (even though we had on green wristbands which meant "peon" as opposed to red which meant "vineyard owner" and blue which meant "seller/distributor").

Midlife Crisis Winery
With a name like that, how could we not stop? Another first for me, the Nebbiolo which is a red grape. I just wrote a nice big smiley face next to it. A nice bottle to have on hand.

Opolo Vineyards
A random selection on our part. They make many things, probably the biggest list on the pages, but we just tried one: '05 Syrah. Yup, good stuff.

Pierce Ranch Vineyards
Another stop on the Albariño tour. They have some other Spanish grapes too (Tempranillo, Touriga).

Roshambo Winery
As soon as we saw the massive Roshambus parked in front of the pavilion, complete with fuzzy dice and a dashboard covered in astroturf with little army men all over it, we knew we'd have to go find these guys. As irreverant as winemakers get, they had on striped ties and hung a little plastic gold medal over their table ID sign. To get away with being so offbeat, they had to have fine wine. Yum! I highly recommend "Rock" (as opposed to "Paper" or "Scissors") as a hearty red dinner wine. This would have been a fun place to hang out and talk smack all day long. Maybe later--we scored free tasting room passes.

Siduri Wines & Novy Family Winery
We just tasted the pinot noir. This was on the way off from Roshambo, out for another breath of fresh air and a glass of water.

York Creek Vineyards
Another stop on my "edjumakate me!" tour. Here we had a lovely Cab, but also something called Carignane, which is a bit like a granache but not. It is a French grape. We also tasted the Petite Verdot, which I liked a lot.

While admission wasn't cheap (like $55/ticket) this was a great way to get to know a whole bunch of little known wines all at once. Also not a bad way to figure out where to go tasting (Lodi area, who knew?) for family wines. Why you should give a damn about family winemakers: in general, they are not part of the huge factory agricultural scene. Many of the winemakers we talked to were working on going organic or using biointensive farming measures. They care about their products in a way that Oscar Meyer just can't. Family winemakers organizations have worked with state lobbying groups to repeal stupid laws that don't allow direct shipments to individuals, giving more people access to wine from small wineries, and allowing smaller wineries to widen the market for their products. Family wineries are more likely to take a chance on a new or relatively unknown grape, or experiment with new types of wines and mixes of grapes.

In addition, I met a guy who engraves wine bottles (with wine still in them). Originally I stopped because there was a Penn State bottle, which my parents will be getting for Christmas. Anyway, he turned me on to a family winery run by a Penn State grad and gave me the guy's number.

There were tables with cheeses and crackers, and some kind of aged Wisconsin hard cheese. When I got sick later, and [info]don_negro didn't, we figured it must be the cheese. We'd had the same amount of wine (and I'm bigger than he is, which should make me more tolerant) and we'd eaten all the same things that day except for the cheese. I must have grabbed a piece that had been sitting out just a little too long. Well, the other option is that it was just too hot for me (though we did take breaks outside, in the breeze, and I drank lots of water).
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2 movies [Aug. 25th, 2008|12:48 pm]

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[100 words / 100 days] 25/100 - self-love [Aug. 25th, 2008|02:52 pm]

kiramor
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The search for self-knowledge can turn up unpleasant truths. We do the vital work of healing and integrating those truths. But we sometimes take it too far. We take inner journeys and then castigate ourselves about what we find. We go looking for our flaws, on search-and-destroy missions against ourselves. I think we'd be happier if we instead unearthed our core of basic goodness.

Take time to generate compassion for yourself. Our spiritual work encompasses more than the discovery and cleansing of complexes. Play and joy have their place as well. God loves us more than we usually love ourselves.
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[100 words / 100 days] 24/100 - the gospel of should [Aug. 25th, 2008|02:36 pm]

kiramor
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Spiritual work is not about finding new ways to beat ourselves up. Too often, we leave our mainstream religions of origin and go into the new tradition with the same willingness to listen to some author or spiritual authority preaching the Gospel of Should. In terms of our relation to the Divine, there is no should. Some results require practice, and some practices are more effective than others, but last I checked there was no requirement that we be spiritual in any particular way. It's something we choose to do for love or longing, and “should” has no place in it.
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[Aug. 25th, 2008|12:27 pm]

dbananza
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go Rideout!
level 60!
it's your birthday!
level 60!



let me tell you i was busy getting killed so much i barely noticed.. leveling literally saved my life in the middle of a fight! many thanks to my doggiez Papadoctor and Fallingsun/Ragnara for helping me get there. i need gear, gear, gear man...

and now, to 70.
uphill all the way. :)
*sigh*

i know i sound like i'm kvetching all the way to 70 but i'm having a ball.
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I can haz internets! [Aug. 23rd, 2008|11:57 pm]

royalbananafish
Hey all. I just got my internet stuff hooked up today (to be fair, I've only had it since yesterday). Some of you may have noticed that my cell phone was disconnected last weekend, as I wasn't able to pay the bill (I am still waiting on a reimbursement check, and my first payday was Friday--not that I have the money, as the first check was an actual check and I waited until too late to try to deposit it today. Gr.). I will have a new phone number sometime in the very near future, and will let you know when that happens.

In the meanwhile, my job ROCKS. I did work a little last weekend, but it is totally worth it. I'm sure I will post more stories later on, but for now it is enough to say that all is well.

Given that we have limited internet usage at work (no web-based email is the big one), and I work a lot, I don't expect to be online every day like I was in Portland. We'll see. I still need to finish unpacking and getting rid of boxes, so that's how most of my time at home will be spent this week.

Love to you all!
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dodgers win! [Aug. 23rd, 2008|06:27 pm]

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[Aug. 23rd, 2008|06:26 pm]

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[Aug. 23rd, 2008|06:22 pm]

touchyou
[Current Location |the great divide]
[mood |separated at birth]



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robo granny [Aug. 23rd, 2008|08:25 am]

joad77
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[Aug. 23rd, 2008|05:45 am]

murdermystery
DUDE THE SUN IS RISIN'
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